I was talking to a friend of mine about pregnancy. “I remember when I couldn’t tie my shoes anymore, my husband would tie them for me,” she laughed.

It made me think a lot… I never got to a point where I couldn’t tie my shoes… because I had no one to tie them for me… It was very difficult, but I figured out a way to do it: I’d put my foot on a chair and tie by reaching down the inside. Then I’d go power walk on the treadmill. I did that till the day I gave birth.

I wonder how much we really CAN’T do when we are pregnant and how much we don’t want to do and how much we just want our partner to feel useful.

Pregnant Mom Solos know, women can  do it all ourselves. When we get help it’s just icing.